Why Use Us

Some of our students have diagnoses, while others face a variety of challenges related to ADHD, executive functioning skills, and other motivational, emotional, and learning issues that prevent them from feeling successful and achieving their potential. A common thread among our students is that they are extremely intelligent but do not meet the expectations of parents, teachers, and, most importantly, themselves. They often feel frustrated and discouraged, turning to dopamine-rich activities like social media and video games to escape reality. Many students minimize their shortcomings, especially when their difficulties are perceived as laziness or lack of effort.

"Laziness" is a four-letter word used too often to describe these students. When adults see a bright and talented kid with a ton of potential who appears to be squandering their ability through procrastination or half-hearted effort, it can be frustrating to witness. However, we believe that labeling a child as "lazy" avoids the reality of what is truly happening. We believe that children do not choose to be unsuccessful but rather lack the skills in certain areas that prevent them from flourishing.

At DES, we provide your child or teenager with awareness-based practices that open their eyes to the problem and then arm them with practical solutions. These exercises allow students the opportunity to see how success feels, which builds confidence. A confident young person armed with innate intelligence and a skill set to match has unbridled potential. Although our process tends to be a long-term venture, it's a beautiful thing to watch your child come into their own.

Students are not the only ones reaping the benefits of our coaching.  We also work with parents by providing them with strategies to ease frustration and assist their struggling children.

If parenting was not difficult enough, some moms and dads find themselves in the awkward position of being the homework police. When it comes to our methodologies, we say, parents can't be tutors, and tutors can't be parents," so we will not burden parents by directly involving them in our sessions or process with students. Utilization of a supportive, non-judgmental, and non-punitive style can effectively establish a trusting relationship with our students in a nurturing, one-on-one environment. By providing interventions and incorporating our methods, DES seeks to improve your child's performance, thus boosting the parent-child relationship and, thus, the child’s confidence.  

We are here for you! It helps to have a supportive and objective voice of reassurance, and we always do our best to fill you with realistic optimism. Remember, your child will feed off your positivity just as much as your anxiety. Kids don't always adhere to their parents' requests, but they certainly are more likely to mirror their actions.

Since 2009, DES has been successful in working with students with a variety of learning challenges. Composed of skilled educators, all of whom have master's degrees and teaching certifications, our professional staff includes executive functioning coaches and learning specialists. Diversified Education Services (DES) supports the academic growth of children, adolescents, and adults, regardless of age. Our commitment to collaboration, connection, and contribution ensures that you or your child thrives and remains consistent in their academic or professional journey.

Executive functions are often referred to as the mind's management system. Without well-developed executive functions, achieving goals can be challenging. 

Executive Functioning encompasses three key areas:

• Self-regulation (Inhibitory Control): Managing impulses and behaviors.
• Working Memory: The capacity to remember and use information.
• Flexibility (Problem-Solving): The ability to adapt to new situations and solve problems.

These areas can be further divided into specific skills such as:

• Working Memory
• Adaptable Thinking
• Self-Control/Self-Monitoring
• Planning/Prioritizing
• Time Management
• Organization

Children aren't born with executive function skills. Instead, they require guidance and support to develop these essential abilities. These skills are nurtured through sports, school, and art activities and can be modeled at home. They continue to grow throughout a person's early twenties, acting as the brain's engine for succeeding at goals and thriving beyond expectations.

Serving children, teens, and adults across Fairfield County, Connecticut, and Westchester County, New York, as well as throughout the entire United States, DES offers personalized executive functioning and tutoring sessions on a wide range of topics for students. Additionally, we provide a life coaching program for adults.

→ For Students (Grade School through College)

Executive functioning (EF) coaching is a powerful apparatus that supports students from grade school through college. We recognize that strong executive functioning skills are the foundation of academic success. Parents often come to us with various scenarios where their children struggle to maintain efficient work habits. Whether it's the stress of missing deadlines, the tension-filled nights before a major test or project, or the Sunday night meltdowns of stress after an unproductive weekend of preparation, parents share these heart-wrenching scenarios with us. Having a high IQ or attending a top-tier school does not insulate young people from exposure to executive dysfunction. All young people lacking in EF skills are at risk for the physical, mental, and even spiritual fallout from inefficient work habits.

However, there is a solution! Through our personalized, one-on-one coaching, we equip students with the ability to manage their time, stay organized, and develop effective study habits. Whether it's navigating the challenges of elementary, middle, or high school or preparing for the rigors of college, our program provides the essential tools and strategies for students to excel. We aim to address these challenges and provide effective solutions, instilling confidence and security in both parents and students.

→ For Adults (Working Professionals and Those Figuring Out Their Paths)

Our Executive Functioning Program also caters to adults, whether working professionals or individuals figuring out their next steps in life. Many adults face challenges in maintaining and achieving personal and professional goals. We offer tailored coaching to help adults enhance their organizational skills, improve time management, and develop clear action plans. For those in career transitions or post-college "purgatory," we provide the guidance needed to navigate these changes, build confidence, and achieve meaningful progress.